Friday, September 12

Find the Good in Everyday

After the week I've had, the quote I have posted over there on the right has new meaning for me. It's been one of those weeks for me: where most days were filled with more downs instead of ups, where my patience ran out, and my sweet little angelic children seemed to do the exact opposite of what they're told (BIG SIGH.) I was quietly doing laundry this morning and just thinking of all the things that seemed to go wrong this week when my mind was flooded with all the things, no matter how small and insignificant, seemed to go right. Every day this week definitely wasn't good, but as I looked back, I started to 'find the good in everyday.'

The kids may not have picked up their messes or done their chores right away, but Zachary did pick up all the clutter and toys in the family room one afternoon without being asked.

Zachary might have been teasing his little brother too much, but he did come home excited and tell me all about a new friend he had made in his class.

Mason may have to go to the bathroom 4 times during sacrament meeting and 3 times while shopping at Target, but at least he's been willingly potty training the last few weeks and I don't have to deal with messy diapers anymore. (Note to self: When your three year old is potty training and battling diarrhea all day, don't take him shopping with you to Target- you're just setting yourself up for disaster.)

Taylor may have thrown a fit about something, but at least she comes home every afternoon and starts on her homework and practices her piano without a struggle.

Mason may have played 'garbage man' and thrown all the toys, magazines, and shoes into the corner of the room in one big heap, but he did go around and collect all the dirty clothes and bring them into the laundry room for me.

Tanner may be suffering with never ending congestion and waking me up at night with his coughing, but he has the sweetest disposition, loves to give me hugs and has a smile that melts your heart.

My family may murmur about the dinner they see me cooking, but twice this week everyone cleaned their plates and asked for seconds.

I could go on, but I was quickly made aware this morning that there has been some good in every day this week. I'm hoping this little life lesson will be fresh on my mind as I start next week and try to have a better outlook when my days seem to head in the wrong direction.

9 comments:

John and Heather Davis said...

Way to look at the positive!! I feel for you though when you just have those days where you think that it cant get any worse only to wake up the next day to deal with more of the crazy and all you think is "When is this going to END?! Why cant my kids listen and not grumble and fight? Please just give 1 good day this week!!!"

Jennie Z said...

What a great attitude. You are a great example of finding the good in things. I am always looking for a way to be more positive, since I tend to be pretty negative. You've inspired me for the next week. Sorry you had such a rough week!

Jill Johnson said...

You are so awesome. Some weeks are like that huh?

steve said...

andrew may have sat all day and night on the couch watching tv, but at least byu won, .....etc....

Karen and John said...

You have such a great attitude! I need to look at my days more like that, it is just so easy to see all that is going wrong. Thanks for that thought of finding the good in everyday.

Erin Camp said...

Same week. I found myself doing the exact same thing you were doing late Thursday night while Sam was kicking me to death in bed. The sun will come out tomorrow though right?

Chandra said...

What a great attitude to have- I need to adopt that theory. There is good every minute, just to be living in this country is a blessing let alone church, family, friends etc. Saw your kids names on the Dr. sign in sheet today, hope they're well. Jace had a rash turned out to be hives. It was our first time seeing her, she seemed pretty nice.

The John Hollingshaus Family said...

Thanks for the quote. I think we all need to hear that sometimes. I can't believe how big your kids have gotten. When we left Vegas all you had was Taylor and Zachy. Maybe I'm wrong, but I know when we babysat it was just them. Miss you guys.
Carrie

Anonymous said...

oh uncle andrew btw natalie picked her ring out!!!